Ben Dale <pastorbendale>


I"m a church youth leader in Maidenhead, married to the beautiful Cat! I love my job, my wife and my God! I"m big into sport, especially football and cricket.


Take a look at www.the-fix.org.uk
if you wanna find out a bit more about what I do with the youth work!

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Ben Dale says:

"I'm well proud of Cat and Matthew! He's def gonna be the next Stevey G!" (9 weeks ago) me too!

Music
Delirious? Oasis, Artic Monkeys, Kasabian, Chili Peppers, Coldplay, Razorlight, Slim Shady- the good stuff, Guillemots, Fall Out Boy, Snow Patrol, Beastie Boys, Kanye West- the good stuff, DC Talk, Jars of Clay...
Films
Forrest Gump, Man on Fire, Dumb and Dumber (Classic!), Braveheart, Good Will Hunting, Casino, Godfather Trilogy, Band of Brothers, Don"t be a meanace to south central while drinking your juice in the hood (yes it is a genuine film title! check it out on IMDB) Saving Private Ryan, Lord of the Rings trilogy, The Departed, Pan's Labyrinth (awesome) and of course Napolean Dynamite!
Sports
Liverpool FC! Cricket, Rugby...
Scared Of
Needles!
Happiest When
Chilling with mates in the pub with a cold beer around the pool table or Quiz Machine with football on in the background.
Remeber...
"You did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry "Abba, Father" . The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God"s children. Now if we are children then we are heirs- heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory" Amen! Romans 8:15-17

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  • summer ball 07

    Hi All,

    Thanks to everyone who turned up.... for some photos and reports check out

    http://www.real-life.org.uk/youthpho...

    or follow links from

    www.the-fix.org.uk
    www.s-cape.org.uk

    Great!

    Ben

    1 Comment 518 days

  • Anyone got an easy answer?

    Hi all,

    I've been asked to write an article looking at ethical dilemmas and how we make our decisions in life. I got to reading this book which said there are 3 basic ways of solving a dilemma:

    1. Chose the way which results in the greatest good for the greatest number
    2. Chose the 'virtuous' way- the way that 'feels' right to you
    3. Follow a set of rules that tells you what to do i.e. the law, the Bible, a contract etc.

    They all have their merits.... but what one would you chose? Why?

    Let's give an example. You got a friend who is taking drugs. Do you go to the police, teachers, their parens. or do you let them get on with it? Are they harming anyone else? Could it escalate? What is your responsibility as a friend?

    Do any of the models set out above help you in your decision, or are they all flawed?

    Well, I'm not sure there are easy answers- but maybe you think I'm being stupid and missing something obvious- let me know!

    Ben

    5 Comments 628 days

  • Relevent or Real?

    Thanks for all those who read and posted on by last blog.

    Thought I'd follow it up with some thinking from another book I was reading the other day. It basically said that young people nowadays don't care if something is relevent to their lifes, as long as it is real and authentic. It got me thinking as to whether or not that was true?

    Are you more likely to listen to someone who can speak with relevance i.e. knows where you;re coming from, knows about the stuff you're going through or someone who has reality to them, an authenticity i.e. they're in a completely different place to you socially and culturally but what they say comes out of the reality of their life experience.

    mmmm...... I'd guess we'd hope for both, but if you had the choice what would it have to be: Relevant or Real?

    Maybe this is a little abstract, but if this is my 'deep thinking' part of my page so if you're up for deep thinking then I'd love to hear what you think,

    Cheers,

    Ben

    7 Comments 640 days

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  • Ollie Ollie

    Thanks, ur pics up and a skin i made:)

    5 weeks ago
  • Faye Kaufman Faye Kaufman

    Hello =]
    weekend away was amazing!

    btw, there was a girls only night, and i saw one of the pictures was on the website, but i cant get to the rest. Do u know where i could find them as they were supposed to be sent to us?

    x

    5 weeks ago
  • Ollie Ollie

    safe Ben

    Weekend away was amazing, thanks for doin all that!

    I have a cool pic of you with the helemt on, ha i shall upload it

    Ollie

    5 weeks ago
  • Gazz Gazz

    ben set me a place as a top friend oln bebo.

    6 weeks ago
  • Ollie Ollie

    Ok, i will fill that out now.

    Its www.ac-websitedesign.co.uk

    cheers

    6 weeks ago
  • Craig J Craig J

    hello

    i just wanted to know if u were there

    so i will see you at youth tomorrow then

    7 weeks ago
  • Craig J Craig J

    hi ben
    just wondering
    are u at the fix on friday

    comment back

    thanks :)

    7 weeks ago
  • Ollie Ollie

    ok, Good to here your all good

    I think I will go on the Connect


    Have a good weekend

    x

    9 weeks ago
  • Ollie Ollie

    Ben mate
    heard the news, Congrats on the baby :) , hope Cats doing well.
    I am coming back to youth club!

    9 weeks ago
  • Lorna Lorna

    Congratulations!
    We all hope cat is recovering well.
    Our best wishes and prayers
    Sandy, Adrian, Heather and Lorna x

    9 weeks ago
  • Craig J Craig J

    congrats
    on your new son !!!!!

    10 weeks ago
  • Michael Attenborough Michael Attenborough

    I left this a-bit late but would Malcolm be able to go to youth today???

    11 weeks ago
  • Matt Matt

    ben!!!!!



    youth start again dont it this week



    c ya there


    matt

    11 weeks ago
  • Hazman Hazman

    hey ben
    wt week does the fix start up agian
    oh and congratz bout the baby
    cya soon
    tb

    15 weeks ago
  • JD Productions JD Productions

    Ive finished your skin
    its top on the list under skins
    and its called ben dale :)

    18 weeks ago
  • Jeffery. Jeffery.


    Yh Ok,,I'll Ask Same :)

    C Ya :!

    Ollie

    18 weeks ago
  • Jeffery. Jeffery.

    Hello Ben :D ,

    Thanks that, look forward to joining :P
    ok so just turn up and ask for details , got it :D

    Congrats on the baby mate,:D


    Cheers,
    Ollie

    :P

    18 weeks ago
  • Jeffery. Jeffery.

    Hey Ben!
    Thanks For The Ball On Friday,,It Was Awsome,,
    I Realy Enjoyed It,,

    If I Wanted To Join the Fix,,How Would I Do That?:D

    Cheers Mate,

    Ollie :D

    18 weeks ago
  • Nikki Nikki

    Hey ben :D

    Thanks for yesterday :D
    It was a really good day out :D

    :D

    xxxxx

    19 weeks ago
  • Higgonn .

    Okai Dokey

    19 weeks ago
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