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Ben Dale <pastorbendale>


I"m a church youth leader in Maidenhead, married to the beautiful Cat! I love my job, my wife and my God! I"m big into sport, especially football and cricket.


Take a look at www.the-fix.org.uk
if you wanna find out a bit more about what I do with the youth work!

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Ben Dale says:
"Hey guys join the youth club fantasy footy league - I will beat u all.Code to Join is 286240-63608 go to http://fantasy.premierleague.com" (6 weeks ago) me too!

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Delirious? Oasis, Artic Monkeys, Kasabian, Chili Peppers, Coldplay, Razorlight, Slim Shady- the good stuff, Guillemots, Fall Out Boy, Snow Patrol, Beastie Boys, Kanye West- the good stuff, DC Talk, Jars of Clay...
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Forrest Gump, Man on Fire, Dumb and Dumber (Classic!), Braveheart, Good Will Hunting, Casino, Godfather Trilogy, Band of Brothers, Don"t be a meanace to south central while drinking your juice in the hood (yes it is a genuine film title! check it out on IMDB) Saving Private Ryan, Lord of the Rings trilogy, The Departed, Pan's Labyrinth (awesome) and of course Napolean Dynamite!
Sports
Liverpool FC! Cricket, Rugby...
Scared Of
Needles!
Happiest When
Chilling with mates in the pub with a cold beer around the pool table or Quiz Machine with football on in the background.
Remeber...
"You did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry "Abba, Father" . The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God"s children. Now if we are children then we are heirs- heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory" Amen! Romans 8:15-17

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summer ball 07
Hi All,

Thanks to everyone who turned up.... for some photos and reports check out

http://www.real-life.org.uk/youthpho...

or follow links from

www.the-fix.org.uk
www.s-cape.org.uk

Great!

Ben
1 Comment 432 days ago
Anyone got an easy answer?
Hi all,

I've been asked to write an article looking at ethical dilemmas and how we make our decisions in life. I got to reading this book which said there are 3 basic ways of solving a dilemma:

1. Chose the way which results in the greatest good for the greatest number
2. Chose the 'virtuous' way- the way that 'feels' right to you
3. Follow a set of rules that tells you what to do i.e. the law, the Bible, a contract etc.

They all have their merits.... but what one would you chose? Why?

Let's give an example. You got a friend who is taking drugs. Do you go to the police, teachers, their parens. or do you let them get on with it? Are they harming anyone else? Could it escalate? What is your responsibility as a friend?

Do any of the models set out above help you in your decision, or are they all flawed?

Well, I'm not sure there are easy answers- but maybe you think I'm being stupid and missing something obvious- let me know!

Ben
5 Comments 542 days ago
Relevent or Real?
Thanks for all those who read and posted on by last blog.

Thought I'd follow it up with some thinking from another book I was reading the other day. It basically said that young people nowadays don't care if something is relevent to their lifes, as long as it is real and authentic. It got me thinking as to whether or not that was true?

Are you more likely to listen to someone who can speak with relevance i.e. knows where you;re coming from, knows about the stuff you're going through or someone who has reality to them, an authenticity i.e. they're in a completely different place to you socially and culturally but what they say comes out of the reality of their life experience.

mmmm...... I'd guess we'd hope for both, but if you had the choice what would it have to be: Relevant or Real?

Maybe this is a little abstract, but if this is my 'deep thinking' part of my page so if you're up for deep thinking then I'd love to hear what you think,

Cheers,

Ben
7 Comments 554 days ago
 

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December 23, 2007 09:08 AM
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Ben Dale
December 17, 2007 05:18 AM
Nah ain't as good as facebook jonas :)
 

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Barging with Uni Mates
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Battle of the Bands
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Ben Nevis
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Ben Riley Stag! Alton Towers
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Guys Only Easter 2007
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Hazman
hey ben
wt week does the fix start up agian
oh and congratz bout the baby
cya soon
tb
3 weeks ago
JD Productions
Ive finished your skin
its top on the list under skins
and its called ben dale :)
6 weeks ago
Jeffery.

Yh Ok,,I'll Ask Same :)

C Ya :!

Ollie
6 weeks ago
Jeffery.
Hello Ben :D ,

Thanks that, look forward to joining :P
ok so just turn up and ask for details , got it :D

Congrats on the baby mate,:D


Cheers,
Ollie

:P
6 weeks ago
Jeffery.
Hey Ben!
Thanks For The Ball On Friday,,It Was Awsome,,
I Realy Enjoyed It,,

If I Wanted To Join the Fix,,How Would I Do That?:D

Cheers Mate,

Ollie :D
6 weeks ago
Nikki
Hey ben :D

Thanks for yesterday :D
It was a really good day out :D

:D

xxxxx
6 weeks ago
Higgonn .
Okai Dokey
6 weeks ago
Higgonn .
Yo Ben



Thanks For Today It Was Sooo Fun



Cant Belive My Phone Didnt Break On That Ride :P ~


Hahah Harry
6 weeks ago
Joe
Hey, btw if you need her home number ill give it to you 2moro at school i dont have it atm.

its joe difford btw.
7 weeks ago
Joe
Hey Ben, i know its late but i wondered if i could invite someone to the summer ball, she's called Anna. I would've asked you earlier but our computer has been broken for ages.
If you can reply asap or ill talk to you at school 2moro if your in.

cya Joe
7 weeks ago
Peteyy
me house number is 01628 621221 klz
7 weeks ago
Jeffery.
Ben,,
Im Ollie,,Alisha Invited Me ,
Some One Said You Needed My House Number!

So Here You Go,,01628 529 846

Cheers,,
Ollie
7 weeks ago
Sam C
Yes Ben
Im Comin On Friday Mate
Mahouse no is 01628 632800
7 weeks ago
Peteyy
heywould u b able to put me on the list for the summr ball , i think jonny was gona invite me but yer if u culd wuld b kl thanx
7 weeks ago
Katiee 'X
Ohh Okaii ,
Ollie Is For Alishaa ..
Not Me :P
I Dont Think Kanes Coming ,,
Okaii ThankYouu
See You Fridayy :D
Katiee
7 weeks ago
Nikki
hi ben :D

me & faye would like to go on the thorpe park trip & were wondering i there were any places left. If there are maybe u could reserve a place for us & we bring in the money & form at the ball.

thanks :D

xxxxxx
7 weeks ago
Jonas G
Hey ben, i just realised the summer ball is on this friday, but due to my large absence at the youth club I wasn't sure If I'm able to go or if I need anything?

Is it ok me going and what is the dress code if I am?
7 weeks ago
Katiee 'X
Hello Ben :D
Sorry I Forgot To Tell You On Friday And On The Weekend About The Vip Listt Thing ..
Would You Be Able To Keep 2 Or 3 Places Free Please ..
I Need To Get Sam And Ollies House Numbers.
Kane Might Want To Come But I Dont Know I Will Let You Know ,
Ollie Jeffery And Sam Clarke Are Coming ..
ThankYou ..
Katiee
7 weeks ago
Neaves
hi ben, its tom, can i reserve a place for my brother jamie neaves, hes in year11 and our home number is 01628 415867.
7 weeks ago
Higgonn .
Hi Ben


What do Like etnies and dcs and things like that count as at the summer ball ?


Like there not trainers are they ?

P.s Do We Have To Wear Formal stuff

Harry [moon]
8 weeks ago
 
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